Every man has been asked the questions: How do I look in this, Do this make me look big, How does my hair look, How would this look on me (and you are holding the clothing on a hanger), Do I look fat, Do you think I need to go on a diet, and the list goes on and on. Many men want to know why women ask these questions. A lot of men have a fight in their brain: "Should he tell her the truth, deal with the emotional breakdown, and her being upset or Should he lie, save face, and know deep down inside he wanted to tell the truth". My parents use to say to me all the time: Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer. Share your thoughts...
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I want you to tell me the truth and we can move forward for there. If we are an item I am a reflection of you.
If a woman can't handle the answer given then she needs to leave the man alone. If she's asking it's because she wants to know what he thinks. He should not get berated for telling her the truth. What kind of communication sharing system is that? His honesty shows that he is a man of integrity and doesn't try to hide the truth so that she doesn't get upset with him. Answers to small questions like "do I look fat in this" can be answered truthfully and tactfully so that no feelings aren't hurt. Answers to questions like "did you sleep with her" are the ones that men lke to avoid because women can't "handle the answer." to Women don't like to get hooked on a man, then get deceived just so that you don't make her feel uncomfortable with an "answer she can't handle."
part (a) for conversation. part (b) I may not be able to handle the truth, but in the end I appreciate it more than a lie and respect the man more for being HONEST.
Sometimes we ask questions just to hear the response even though we know the answer, and sometimes we don't know that we can't handle the truth until it's already been said. Initally we thought we could. Most women undertand the importance of good communication between couples. We are just trying to get the men to catch on and understand the importance of it as well.
I totally agree with Tori's answer. I do really want to know what the man is thinking. How can you not be thinking anything? And if the answer is hurtful then its good because I need to know. It hurts at first but it helps. Questions lead to conversation and seems like it helps with getting things started. And I think you just want to get to know the person and what they really think about you, what they say to their friends, etc. I guess. Reassurance, if we already know the answer. Confidence booster just like guys like their egos stroked, women like to hear that things are okay.
Lol. Sometimes we just want your response or take or certain issues and then sometimes its for attention. Now as far as not being able to handle a response...I was taught to never ask a question you don't want to know the answer to...
I only ask questions that I want the honest answer on. I do not ask rhetorical questions. If I look a mess, tell me. Don't let me leave the house looking a hot mess.
Just tell me!! Don't string me along with lies and I won't do the same to you. True enough it might hurt me to find out, but at least you cared enough about me to be open and honest. We need more of that from you, brothers. Sisters let's be more honest to our men too. It goes both ways you know. ;-)
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